Let me retell an anecdote which I just heard from a priest's sermon and I entitled "Fallen from the bridge"
(I originally posted this at http://www.bubblews.com/news/9861830-039fallen-from-the-bridge039 )
There was once a priest assigned in parish within a city full of every temptation for the sins of the flesh. The city had a lot of bars that offers lewd floor shows both for men and women, prostitution houses, etc. During confessions, the priest find it too vulgar how the parishioners describe their adulterous acts. So in his Sunday sermon, he told the congregation to say "fallen from the bridge" when referring to sins of adultery and he will understand. From then on, the parishioners did as requested by the priest. It went on that way for many years. Whenever the priest hears a confession of "fallen from the bridge", he knows that it is something on adultery and gives the proper absolution.
Time came when there were reshuffling of priest within the diocese. A new priest was assigned in the parish. During confession, this new priest hears so much of the sin "fallen from the bridge." He concluded that there must be broken bridge somewhere and that the citizens were guilty for not contributing to the repair of such bridge. So he went to the city mayor. He told about that bridge that many have fallen from and he asked for the immediate repair of said bridge so that people will no longer feel guilty.
The mayor laughed at the story of the new priest knowing that such "fallen from the bridge" was an innovation of the previous priest. While the mayor was laughing, the priest said, "That is not a laughing matter your honor and must be taken seriously. In fact, your spouse confessed falling from that bridge three times already."
The mayor stopped laughing, the face turned all red in anger!